MAFS Groom Filip's cursed YouTube channel: An investigation

Filip talks everything from self pleasure to how to attract 'females'.
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Filip with Stella on MAFS

You know who we haven’t heard that much about? Filip Gregov, the 38-year-old Married At First Sight (MAFS) groom, whose most memorable moment was being accosted by Stella’s friendship group for plugging his YouTube channel on the altar.

But honestly, I don’t think we hear about Filip’s YouTube channel enough. And I know you’re all busy. So I did the grunt work, and had a pass at Filip’s YouTube treasure trove, which sees Filip refer to grown women as “females”, and caters to men ready to “level up”, “attract”, and “dominate”.

And look, I haven’t watched all of the videos, because there’s only so much I can take. But this is essentially a self-improvement series with blatant nods towards the Manosphere: we’re talking Red Pill ideology where the primary message is to “get jacked” and “have your pick of the mix” — the mix, of course, being women, who tend to be talked about in Filip’s videos more as commodities than human beings.

So join us on our rocky quest to understand Filip Gregov’s YouTube presence, the recurring themes that emerge, and why a lot of this language is more dangerous than it seems — to both women and men.

1. Filip loves the word “females”

Something unmistakably Manosphere about Filip’s YouTube videos is his use of the word “females” when referring to women, along with a solid serving of “chicks”. In one of the many videos in which Filip opines about women, in an essentialising way that is typical of Red Pill ideology, he says that “females know on a subconscious level that if you look after yourself, you can look after them, you can protect them.”

What do you reckon, females? Has he got it right? Of course, the word “females” is often used to refer to women in misogynistic spaces, as a way to belittle women and reduce them to their biological capabilities (which are definitely cool, but calm down).

I’ll admit that after watching a few videos, I had lost all hope of Filip ever using the word “women”, but there was one in which he finally did, and it was beautiful. Honestly, it felt as if a ray of sunlight had pierced its way through the storm clouds, and for a moment — just a moment — I felt human again.

2. He hits on Incel talking points

In another video, Filip shouts out a distressing fact: There’s an “epidemic” of “guys not having sex” and “guys not having relationships”. He adds that the top 10 per cent of guys are literally going through 70-80 per cent of women. Guys, I’m going to call a spade a spade. Keeping 100 with ya.”

You may remember that a similar statistic was quoted by the kid in the TV show Adolescence. In much of the Manosphere, especially the Incel division, it’s a commonly cited but mythical metric used to imply that men are victims of the whims of women, who obviously hold all the power and capital in this godforsaken world!

Implicit in the citing of this made-up statistic is also that men are entitled access to women and are being shortchanged, not least because these days women are getting more of a say in who they do or don’t date. Of course, that sense of entitlement to women and sex is a problem because it can manifest in getting aggressive towards women to the point of assault.

In any case, Filip presents the tired old statistic as some kind of cosmic truth and offers up hacks to help men inhabit that elite tenth percentile. As you can imagine, this involves getting jacked.

3. He is regularly shirtless

Filip’s physique is a clear source of pride in his videos — he often makes a point to show off his chest to the camera, and talks about his gym routine, for example, in videos like “My exact blueprint to be shredded and jacked all year round” and “how being jacked will change your life”. Filip has put out a number of these videos, where he repeatedly says that maintaining his physique means that he’s been able to rise to the top of the sexual marketplace.

As a result of getting muscles, Filip reckons: “I’ve been able to date whoever I want, within reason… can’t go for the top top girls.” And they say love is dead!

Filip is again following the Red Pill handbook to a tee, here. If you’re buying into the idea that we all inhabit a sexual hierarchy and that women flock towards men with the lowest body fat percentile, then having a muscly body can end up becoming a huge part of your identity, which is maybe why he’s so often not wearing a shirt.

Sadly, researchers reckon this obsession with associating masculinity with building muscle can have plenty of negative effects on men, including “poor body esteem, body shame and body surveillance”, showing that the Manosphere doesn’t just hurt women; it hurts men, too.

Filip Gregov shirtless
A typically shirtless Filip Gregov. Image: YouTube

4. He says there’s “no excuse to be overweight”

Filip expresses his disgust with overweight men in more than one video, again showing that Red Pill ideology also harms men. At one point, he states: “If anyone’s telling you it’s alright to have guts and have tits, they are telling you they don’t want to see you dominate.” He’s also said that the idea that women like “dad bods” is a myth, though at no point does he ask any women about this.

Actually, the absence of women’s opinions in his videos is likely very intentional. That’s because Red Pill ideology sees women as deceptive to their core. So even if they say they’re open to dating men with different types of body shapes (like Dad bods, which Filip gets upset about in another video), they’re probably lying, maybe even to themselves.

One of the problems with the belief that women are inherently deceptive is that men are justified in “dominating” them to straighten them out.

6. Filip reckons masturbating is “giving away your life force”

About a year ago, Filip uploaded a video called “Semen Retention No Fap Isn’t The Final Answer For Men,” and look, I’ve always said that! In the video, Filip says he used to watch porn and masturbate five or six times a day, but has stopped doing so because he was giving away his “life force” — which is how he refers to his semen — to a “tissue”.

He adds that as a man, masturbating means that you have “time, energy and focus” to find your “sexual reward” out in the wild, meaning, of course… sex from females! “If that’s what you’re doing it for, then why not just go for the girl you want? Do you know what I mean? Why not just take it? Take her. I mean, she’s there for the taking.” Filip’s right. Women are like undifferentiated little birdies just passively milling around, waiting to be swooped away by swole, blue-balled vultures… and that’s just biology!

While there’s so much more to explore, we’re going to end here, because life is short, and you don’t want to spend too much of it reading about this. I can only hope that you have been changed by this brief investigation into MAFS groom Filip Gregov’s cursed YouTube videos. I, for one, feel a renewed determination to never Google “Manosphere” or “Red Pill” again.

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Reena Gupta

Reena Gupta is a writer with a love for pop culture, especially a good celebrity beef. Her work has appeared in Kill Your Darlings, Refinery29, The Guardian, Buzzfeed, SMH, and more.
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