Do the Farmer Wants A Wife contestants have sex on the show?

The promo for the next Farmer Wants A Wife 2025 episode looks spicy, with intruder Annie accusing Keeley of sleeping with Farmer Corey. It’s already a weird situation, with all the Ladies living together on the farm, but when you add sex into the mix? That would get messy, quickly. So, do the Farmer Wants A Wife contestants have sex, and how do they find a private moment to do the deed? We spoke to some ex-contestants to get the inside intel on what really goes down on the farms. 

Ellen Dunger, who was competing for Farmer Todd Melbourne’s heart in 2024, tells Chattr that no sex took place on their farm. However, it varies from farm to farm.

“Apparently last year it was a done thing and multiple girls slept with their farmers. Not on our farm though! From what I heard, it was during the 24-hour date scenarios where they are not around the other girls,” Ellen spills.

“Everyone has STI checks before [going on the show], they do have consent regulations. I didn’t get a proper solo date, so I don’t know the ins and outs, but I know they have to consent and record it on camera. And they have condoms on hand,” she adds. 

It doesn’t sound very romantic, but I guess that’s what happens when you’re filming a reality TV show. Farmer Todd’s winner Daisy Lamb confirms there was no sex on their farm, but says other farmers on the Farmer Wants A Wife 2024 season definitely slept with some of the women.

“There [are] farmers who choose not to sleep with the women, however there are girls who have the opinion that they need to ‘try before they buy’ sort of thing,” Daisy explains. “I would have left if Todd did that, but I know other Farmers on our season slept with multiple women.”

Krissy reveals she had sex with Farmer Tom throughout the entire show

In an interview with Yahoo! Lifestyle, Krissy Smith slammed Farmer Tom Boyer for leading her on throughout the show, saying they slept together on their very first night at the farm.

“We had a sexual relationship right up until the day I was told he was not going to choose me in that finale. You could imagine how shocked I was to be sidelined at that point,” she said. “We had lay in bed talking at night and I couldn’t have imagined he would pick anyone else.”

Farmer Tom ended up picking Sarah Cranley as his winner, but they didn’t last long. Perhaps she found out about the way he treated Krissy? In an Instagram post, she hinted that Tom hadn’t been completely honest.

“Relationships don’t always work and people are not always who you think they are,” she spilled. It can get messy when sex with multiple people is on the table! Let this be a lesson to all future Farmer Wants A Wife contestants.